How to wear suit and tie everyday?

Good morning gentlemen, like you I am a lover of proper dressing and neckties. Our fetishism is very strong and as you know it is difficult to keep at bay. Some people are lucky and manage to wear a suit and tie every day for work, but sadly not me because of my job. So I ask you, how do you manage to dress in a suit and tie every day? There are those who dress like this even at home, but sometimes I find it disappointing, because I want everyone to see me, how do you live this thing? And in your life as a couple?

Thanks for all your feedback.

Used to wear a strict shirt/tie high collar Windsor contrast collar/cuff style every day for work which was nice. Got very warm and receptive feedback from both male/female colleagues.

But last 20 months it's a different world. Home working and not able to office work. Very and quite different.... shame. Must be others?

It’s definitely getting more difficult. I’m tentatively starting to go back into the office one day a week after eighteen months working at home. I always was one of a minority wearing shirt and tie every day, but it was a large enough minority for me to not stand out too much. It helps that I have very long hair and a beard: when asked I could always say that I dressed conservatively as a deliberate contrast to that to emphasise professionalism.

However, there now seems to have been a definite shift towards more casual dressing. It’s not helped by how few people are in the office on a given day.

The last year and a half have certainly been difficult. After a few months of lockdown I began wearing a shirt and tie everyday again at home. Not necessarily with a suit, maybe with a sweater, sweater vest, or a nice robe. It was definitely an improvement but no substitute for going out properly dressed.

As a couple, my fiance dresses up to go out for dinner usually once per week. She has gotten a lot better at it and is absolutely stunning when she does. I'm always buying her new outfits which is wonderful.

I've been at work since September and have a job where wearing a suit is not always expected but required occasionally. I've been wearing a suit everyday. People generally seem to miss dressing up even if they do not do so themselves. If anyone questions why Im dressed so formally i usually tell them that I wore sweat pants for a year and a half and don't mind making an effort to look put together now that I've got the chance.

I think it's better to embrace the fact that I simply prefer wearing a shirt and tie. Most people like it, some love it even though they may never say so, and you can't please everyone.

If I am not wearing an immaculate shirt and tie for some reason, I've had people question why that is. It's great when coworkers I don't usually talk to or sometimes bartenders remark that they like that I'm always formally dressed and ask why I'm not that day.

It's always worth it to wear a tie. I regret it if I don't.

cutawaycollar wrote:Good morning gentlemen, like you I am a lover of proper dressing and neckties. Our fetishism is very strong and as you know it is difficult to keep at bay. Some people are lucky and manage to wear a suit and tie every day for work, but sadly not me because of my job. So I ask you, how do you manage to dress in a suit and tie every day? There are those who dress like this even at home, but sometimes I find it disappointing, because I want everyone to see me, how do you live this thing? And in your life as a couple?

Thanks for all your feedback.

I am a man who enjoys looking at women in shirt and tie and enjoy dressing like that myself. As I don't have a job where I can wear these sorts of clothes, I have to content myself with wearing smart clothes at the occasional special event such as a meal out with my wife.  Otherwise, I dress up when my wife is out and have a Twitter account where I post pictures of me in smart clothes.  I'd love to wear a suit, shirt and tie for work every day in an environment where everyone else does, too. Maybe I should move to Japan or South Korea.  Yes tie wearing is a very strong fetish once acquired.  I used to hate wearing a shirt and tie, but somehow that hate or fear morphed into a fetish.  I just love the idea, and the reality of wearing a gleaming and crisp white shirt with cufflinks and a properly tied tie, with formal black trousers, but on women, I like to see a formal pencil skirt.