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How do you ask a lady to wear a tie?

For me its two different things.The first one is about your sexual fetish. So you must be straight to your partner and tell her thats your fantasy. my experience tells me that if you are Straigt all things will be better. The second one is about your partner wear ties outside . Thats liitle difficult because a few women wear and only the girls who are in army or laywers or something like that. Its difficult a college girlto go to a restaurant dress like that. You must stand out these things. Sorry for my english

I agree with Darko7. Being honest and straightforward from the start with your partner about your expectations is critical.

It depends on your partner, too. Finding a sexually open and kinky partner goes a long way. And a woman who appreciates the timelessness of a proper button down is a good but not necessary start. 

What problems are you experiencing currently? It's never easy but I've encouraged many partners to embrace a proper shirt and tie. It is doable!

I want to do a birthday tradition where if my future wife and I go out to dinner we both wear a suit and tie for each one, so my birthday we'd both wear a suit and tie, and then for hers, we'd also both wear a suit and tie

Usually I've asked my partners bout wearing a tie when they asked me bout what sort of things I like. Or if we are having a conversation about stuff we both would like to try from one another to help get closer.

I’ll admit it’s different if you’re vanilla, but if you’re into BDSM, and Dominant as I am, it’s just not a problem. You discuss mutual kinks and likes early on anyway, and believe me, this fetish is very tame. My current partner very happily obliges me. It’s not that she has a pre-existing s&t fetish, but she loves the strictness of having a dress code that has to look perfect, and feels very much put in her place which is the best feeling for her.